Wera Mitotes: August 2012

love you

love you

It's never easy knowing that the man who used to be crazy about you is now indifferent. He hardly notices you and he doesn't find you as attractive anymore. You are nothing but the lady who cooks for him. Making a man fall in love with you is one thing and making him fall again is another. It may be more complicated and it requires more effort on your part but it's not impossible.

Whatever the reasons are why your man stopped loving you, there are ways on how to get him to love you again. What can you do if he doesn't feel the same way anymore but you continue to love him just as much if not more? What can be done to make him want you again? With patience, persistence and the right set of techniques, you can definitely draw him back and reawaken those feelings he had for you.

1.) Love yourself and stop complaining about your looks and life in general.

How do you expect your man to keep loving you if all he's heard is your daily whining? If you stay positive, everything around you will be so much better and that includes how your man feels about you. When a person gives out positive vibes, it's normal for people to want to be around you. On the other hand, when you exude too much negativity, you tend to push others away without you knowing it. Sure he'll be sympathetic at first but if all you've done is nitpick for the last couple of months or years, you will definitely drive him crazy. This is a surefire way on how to lose a guy. Focus on the positive aspects of your life and start appreciating your relationship more. When you know your own self-worth, your man will see it too.

Women tend to let themselves go when they've been in a relationship for a long time. If it helps, try to do a makeover so you can start feeling good about yourself again. Make your boyfriend or husband see that attractive woman he fell in love with years ago. Nothing is sexier to a man but confidence.

2.) Focus on other things.

When women get married and start having children, they sort of fall into this trap where they lose their identity. Suddenly they are just wives and mothers. Remember Francesca from the movie Bridges of Madison County? It's perfectly fine to be a dedicated wife and mother but it's also important that you have a life outside your family or relationship. Find something that you enjoy doing. Develop a new hobby and find things you can focus on. Show your man that your world does not revolve around him.

If you've recently broken up with your boyfriend, there's no need for you to sulk at home eating tubs and tubs of Ben & Jerry's Chunky Monkey ice cream in your PJ's. Go out with your friends and don't act like your world has ended. Devote more time and energy to your career. This will not only take your mind off of the guy but this will make you more confident because you actually gained some control again. Start seeing other people so your man knows what he's missing. Making him jealous is another way on how to get him to love you again.

3.) Time to Dig Up Old Happy Memories

When you've finally gathered the courage to win him back, remind him how passionate you were towards each other. Bring up happy memories like that time you went on a vacation at Barbados or your first date. Subtly remind him of the way it feels when you first started dating. Memories tend to bring back feelings too, right?

love you

funny love cartoons

funny love cartoons

There was a time when the bringing up of children was left to the governesses, and that was the reason why parents did not bother much about spending some quality time with their children. The governesses were in charge of the education of the child, until he or she was grown up enough to go to school.

There was no question that she would spend some time teaching them to draw cartoons. Fun was definitely not the name of the game at that time as puckish humor was not the done thing. A child would be taught how to sketch or paint in oils, however he would not be allowed to indulge in his own creativity by drawing long nosed ridiculous stick figures representing grown-up authority.

Nevertheless parents are slowly and steadily getting to know that the family that plays together stays together and that is the reason why they are spending more and more time indulging in childish activities, over which they can bond with each other.

And among these activities, some of the most important ones are drawing funny cartoons. From the age of 2, a child begins to learn motor skills by picking up a piece of pencil and scribbling all over the wall Ã la Picasso. A parent should immediately encourage him to indulge in such creativity by giving him a piece of paper, colored pencils and allow him to scribble away using these mediums. Who knows that you might have the next budding Michelangelo right in your own home?

Humor and fun filled cartoons are some of the easiest activities going. The cartoons definitely do not have to be made to measure, as long as they have some recognizable points. The parents can begin by teaching children stick cartoons. You do not have to be a professional artist, because even a lopsided bunny is going to be acknowledged with cheers by your children. What they are looking for is some quality time spent with you; they ask for nothing more.

Some of the fun activities that can be done by parents as well as children is the making of scrapbooks of the events in the life of the family. For example, for a family get-together, the events can be recorded for posterity with every single member of the family drawing Uncle Hector stepping on the tail of the cat, and Aunt Emily sitting on Aunt Pat's hat. Not only is this going to be a memorable way of remembering the occasion, but it is going to be preserved for future generations. It is good to label these cartoons with funny statements.

Kids love to indulge in such creative activities, because they get a great opportunity to make caricatures of people. Not only is this a very healthy way of getting rid of excess energy, but also, they can be kept busy during a rainy day, drawing cartoons.

funny love cartoons

funny love sayings

funny love sayings

Many women including myself like to claim that the male segment of our population knows nothing about love and romance. African men in particular get a lot of criticism for been un-romantic and incapable of expressing their emotions. From personal experience I would say that this is not true, some of the most romantic men I have dated are African. However, what is romance really? I like to define it as the expression of love. In this article I define romance through the use of some of my favorite African love quotes. These African quotes give us a glimpse into African culture and views on life. They are a part of African history and show us that love and the expression of love are universal. So in defense of my romantic African brothers here are some African love sayings, enjoy them and for all the men out there feel free to use them this Valentines Day to show your beloved just how much you care.

funny love sayings

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

love you

funny love cartoons

funny love sayings